Just say yes, ‘cause I’m aching, I know you are too. For the touch, of your warm skin as I breathe you in.
Snow Patrol, Just Say Yes
I fancy people. How the fuck is that confusing.
"How are you going to have sex with a girl? Its just not the same experience.. Its like giving someone constant handies. And even things after that.. things change up quite a bit in terms of children, all the "couples" do… etc.."
Holy fuck things like this irritate me. I have to stop the initial explosion of “how are you possibly so ridiculous and ignorant” and respond in a calm and collected manner or else I will be upset with myself for being angry and judgmental.
But…SERIOUSLY. What the fuck.
Many couples who are heterosexual use strap ons, females can do the same to suit your definition of sex. It’s the exact same experience both physically and mentally… if you’re gaining pleasure from and are attracted to one another then sex is fucking awesome. AWESOME.
To be honest I don’t know why you are so concerned about my sexual satisfaction.
I don’t know what is meant by’ “couples” do’, you confused me there. Possibly you mean all the things couples do etc…I am not capable of addressing this in a sensible manner.
With children, there are many options including adoption and artificial insemination.
These (and many other questions or statements people have thrown at me) aren’t reasons for me to not to be with a woman or to choose to be with a man. The way I see it is that I won’t really have much of a choice, I will either love somebody or I won’t, that will be the reason I am with a person. If that person happens to be female it does not mean that I have chosen to *not* be with a man…it means I fancy and adore that individual.
I fancy people. PEOPLE. I don’t fancy penis’, I don’t fancy vaginas. I fancy people, it is as simple as it can possibly get. I am not going to attach a label of bisexual, pansexual, greedy, confused or indecisive…as other people have already felt the need to attach all of the above to me. Instead I am happy to say that I fancy and fuck people…just like everybody else.
*I am sorry for the rant but I just have to get this out, it is bubbling within me.
Also, I genuinely had a message from somebody online that said “It offends me that you are identified as bisexual. It is weird.” To which I replied “It offends me that you have taken the time to message me to tell me that you are offended. However, that doesn’t mean I have the right to be nasty to you.” They didn’t bother me after that.
Happiness is not an accident.
By expanding your capacity
To be grateful
And to accept,
you make happiness possible.